Here at Get Fit Slowly, I try and write about how to be healthy. I write about eating right and exercising often. I write about family and friendships. I write about research that I find interesting and training exercises that I’ve tried or would like to try. Sometimes I even talk about BMI, blood pressure, insulin, body fat%, cholesterol and nutrition. Sure, these things are all components of health. But what does it really mean to be healthy?
Two years ago, I wasn’t a very healthy person. I ate poorly, I slept poorly, and I never exercised other than the occasional round of golf. I could no longer play basketball well and was often out of breath just going up a flight of stairs. Years of neglect had turned my body into a 221 pound doughball.
But having kids, and a healthy, active, athletic wife finally lit a fire under me. Slowly, I began to turn my life around. Eating right and frequent exercise became more important to me. The pounds started falling off my body and I became a happier and healthier individual.
To me, being healthy has many components, both physical and mental.
The physical components such as eating right, frequent exercise, and good sleep habits are relatively easy to learn about. One can read a blog (preferably mine), check out a book at the library, subscribe to a health magazine, or even watch the news for tips on how to live a healthy life. Now we all now that learning about things and putting them in our repertoire are two different things. But the information is out there if you want to look for it.
But the mental aspects of being healthy are a bit more elusive. For me, the biggest mental health hurdle that I face is allowing myself to believe that I’m no longer that man in the 221 pound body. I’ve been on many a successful diet. But with each previous one, there was always a feeling of dread. I knew that I wasn’t making permanent lifestyle changes and that eventually, the weight would come back on.
I sometimes still think these terribly frightening thoughts. But lately, the interval between them has been steadily increasing. The difference now is that I know I have made lifestyle changes and that chances are, I’ll stay successful. I’ve been working at this for so long that going back to the ways of the old Mac aren’t really possible because I forgot who the old Mac was. This makes me extremely happy.
The weird thing is though, I’m not a 221 pound brain inside a 175 pound body either. I actually think that because I have been able to lose my weight slowly through the proper channels that my brain has had time to adjust to my weight loss as well. All the habits trapped in the brain of the 221 pound man have been slowly transformed into the habits of a 175 pound man. I honestly feel that my brain and my body are finally on the same page. This also makes me extremely happy.
There are lots of ways to lose weight. And I always say that no one way is the right way. The way that works for you is the right way for you. For me, changing my physical habits for the better has definitely paved the way to a healthy mind. Have I mentioned that I’m extremely happy?

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This is a great post Mac! (sorry for the familiar tone, I feel like I know you since I’ve been reading this site from the beginning!). And so important to realize that you are not the same person you were when you were fat/in debt/cheating/unhappy/whatever. Some people continue to think of themselves as the fat kid they were at 13 for the rest of their lives and this thought pattern ends up dictating everything about them. Once that falls away you can begin to concentrate on the decisions you are making now and the person you want to be in the future.
So glad you’re healthy & happy!
This post resonates with me. I don’t think of myself as the 308 pounds couch potato anymore. When I think of myself I’m a fit runner and I think that is one of the keys to staying healthy in the long run. This is not a temporary thing. I want to be running marathons when I’m 80.
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I agree with Suz up there; sometimes self-image has stuck from a LONG time ago, and it’s really hard to break free of it. My weight has fluctuated so much over the past 30 years that I have no way of gauging it accurately, mentally speaking. And it goes both ways – after I lost weight the last time and gained it back, I couldn’t see the change in the mirror. (Pictures are another story, though, but I try to avoid cameras at all costs).
Quick update: Got up at 7:30 yesterday and ran 2 miles on the treadmill (12:00 the first mile, 10:54 the second). In some pain, but I’ll get over it. Today, got up at 6:30 and lifted, following the Body-For-Life upper-body plan, then finished it off with 11 minutes on the elliptical. As for eating… well, to paraphrase the movie “Airplane!”, “I picked the wrong weekend to quit shoving crap down my throat.”
Suz–Thanks for the comment. It’s really nice to begin thinking of myself as a fit guy instead of a fat guy. I’d love to help more people reach this conclusion as well!
Andrew–I’m sure you will be running marathons when you’re 80!
John–Great job on the work outs the last couple of days! Keep on going and you’ll see lasting changes soon. Then when those changes take place, you’ll see more, get more confident, never want to stop, and reach your fitness goals! Here’s to you.
I have to say that i am the opposite as you Mac. I still feel that I am the more fit person that I was back in high school and first year of college. I’m just living in a heavier body. My mind still tells my body to do the things it knows it needs to (like drive hard in for a layup) but my body just takes longer than it did. I seem to be finding that match up between my brain and body — but still have a while to go. Keep em coming.
This post gives great insight into how a lifestyle change is so much more than a simple diet. It’s a complete change in how you view yourself and your life. It’s a difficult transition to make, but well worth the effort.
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Seth–I think the difference between us is that you were once a fit, athletic guy. I never was. I’ve always struggled with my weight so my brain has always been told it’s fat.
Greg–I don’t think it’s possible to keep lost weight off if you aren’t able to flick that switch in your brain and come to grips with the fact that you must live your life this way forever. “It’s NOT a diet! It’s a lifestyle!” is one of my mantras now.